Dating tips: Make a Girl Become Obsessed With You

The Steps you need to do

Be her hero: Whenever she is in trouble or worried about something, don't just sit there with nothing to say. Acknowledge that you don't have all the answers, and that you may not know exactly what she's going through.

Ask her how you can help, but don't insist that she let you. Be patient with anything she goes through and be supportive. When you can make a difference, do so without hesitation, but also cautiously, as you don't want to hurt her in any way.

Be calm: If you're the kind of guy that gets sweaty and stutters his words when he's around a girl, then just calm down. Girls don't bite! Just be yourself.

Don't lie about yourself: If you try to be emotional like in cheesy movies, then she'll think you're a freak.
Don't fly too deep into the "friends zone": Stop acting like you're "just a friend" for too long or that's exactly what you'll always be.

Don't rush: Give it time. This is where a lot of guys screw up. Don't mistake her kindness for her liking you as more than a friend just yet. She will grow on you eventually.
Make sure you know that she likes you more than just a friend, it can cause some sticky situations.

Care for your image: If you're wearing solid colored t-shirts that you bought from Walmart that don't even fit you, old worn out shoes that you mowed the lawn in 100 times, then you're a total turn-off.

Be charming: You at least must have some kind of charm to appeal to a woman. Think of the leading men from old movies; It's OK to watch them if it's for research purposes.

Be witty: Girls love guys who are great in conversations. It is also a show-off of intelligence, part of subconscious evolutionary preference.

If you don't possess wit, make sure you have other things to show off your intelligence. Academic excellence, athletic achievement, or any kind of creative abilities whether artistic or literary will do. It could be mathematical, spatial, logical - analytical or just about anything to show that you have a highly developed brain.

Be as attractive as possible: This is a very important thing, accounting for 50% of preferences; above all other except when the person is sad, lonely, desperate and vulnerable. Remember that tall and lanky isn't always what a girl looks for, but sometimes broad shoulders can mean a world of difference when she wants to feel safe and protected.

Try to be funny: This relaxes the girl. A person is more responsive and receptive to suggestions when relaxed. This is similar to being witty, but with higher importance. It helps you connect with her logically/intellectually. She will enjoy your company and won't be bored. The girl will also think highly of you even though you're not really that good.

Display intelligence and confidence: Women who are rich, successful and independent want someone who is an equal.

Be financially independent: Most of us aren't blessed with wealth, but be able to pay your own way. Women don't like freeloaders. Women want a man who can provide enough money to afford a life.

Be secure and reliable: Part of security is confidence but it really involves more than that. There are other security items like physique or intellect.

Don't be too pushy:It's a really bad turnoff to always be around her and touching her and flirting obnoxiously with her when she is NOT interested and has never shown any interest at all. Girls find it really annoying when a guy is like that

Don't flirt with other girls too much: a girl might really like you but if she sees you dancing or talking with another girl... she'll think that you don't like her and will probably stop liking you because she thinks you might like another girl better.