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Get yourself out there and let the world know you're available! Maybe the girl you're crushing on is crushing on you too, but thinks you're taken. Drop hints that you like her or just bluntly say so. Get involved in activities. Girls like guys that are doing things - especially sports. And on the plus side, if you join a school team, more girls will notice you so you have more options.Be bold. Girls always like confidence, so tell her what you have to say. There is always a time for subtleties later.
Use humor; it's a great way to win over girls. By doing this you make that special someone feel more comfortable around you. Try to avoid dirty jokes and such (ex: jokes that your guy friends would find funny), and mostly go on wit and quips.
Be romantic and sweet to her.
Don't just come out and say "Do you want to go out with me?" because when you say that, it ruins the mystery and tension. Just find another way to tell her.
Be yourself. Girls like boys who are themselves. And make sure you know the girl! While girls appreciate an honest boy, if who "you" are is not what the girl is into, you're not going to get very far. If she won't like you for who you truly are, she's not worth it.
Dig up any information you can find out about her. Search for her hobbies, interests, music she listens to, friends she likes, etc. Just understand her general style and adapt to it. The first thing a girl looks at is a guy's style.
Talk to her about stuff she is interested in - such as music she likes. Most importantly, try to get her to talk about herself, then build on that. People are naturally more comfortable talking about themselves anyway. Think of it as an opportunity to find out more about this girl so you can determine if you want to pursue her further. Also, if you are stuck on some conversation starters, remember the two starters that always seems to work: food and weather. Be funny and crack a joke every now and then or tell a girl an embarrassing story, but don't gossip! Most girls hate guys who gossip, but love guys who are funny.
Ask her to hang out. If you get to know each other better you may end up going out or you may end up realizing she wasn't the girl for you anyway.
Always be polite. Take into consideration the girl's feelings.
Be a gentleman. Open the door for her, pull out her chair before she sits down, don't interrupt, etc. Those things show a poised, graceful man, and girls like that. You can't act like you do around your male friends.
Don't be too clingy, Give her space.
When you talk to her, don't go on about your vacation inHawaii
Don't swear in front of her. Girls don't want to hear you swear every ten words.
Be sure to try to talk to her as much as possible, and if you like her, just go for it!
Make sure you remember her birthday and special dates like your anniversaries if you start dating, because otherwise you may get in trouble if she or you bring the subject up.
Use humor; it's a great way to win over girls. By doing this you make that special someone feel more comfortable around you. Try to avoid dirty jokes and such (ex: jokes that your guy friends would find funny), and mostly go on wit and quips.
Be romantic and sweet to her.
Don't just come out and say "Do you want to go out with me?" because when you say that, it ruins the mystery and tension. Just find another way to tell her.
Be yourself. Girls like boys who are themselves. And make sure you know the girl! While girls appreciate an honest boy, if who "you" are is not what the girl is into, you're not going to get very far. If she won't like you for who you truly are, she's not worth it.
Dig up any information you can find out about her. Search for her hobbies, interests, music she listens to, friends she likes, etc. Just understand her general style and adapt to it. The first thing a girl looks at is a guy's style.
Talk to her about stuff she is interested in - such as music she likes. Most importantly, try to get her to talk about herself, then build on that. People are naturally more comfortable talking about themselves anyway. Think of it as an opportunity to find out more about this girl so you can determine if you want to pursue her further. Also, if you are stuck on some conversation starters, remember the two starters that always seems to work: food and weather. Be funny and crack a joke every now and then or tell a girl an embarrassing story, but don't gossip! Most girls hate guys who gossip, but love guys who are funny.
Ask her to hang out. If you get to know each other better you may end up going out or you may end up realizing she wasn't the girl for you anyway.
Always be polite. Take into consideration the girl's feelings.
Be a gentleman. Open the door for her, pull out her chair before she sits down, don't interrupt, etc. Those things show a poised, graceful man, and girls like that. You can't act like you do around your male friends.
Don't be too clingy, Give her space.
When you talk to her, don't go on about your vacation in
Don't swear in front of her. Girls don't want to hear you swear every ten words.
Be sure to try to talk to her as much as possible, and if you like her, just go for it!
Make sure you remember her birthday and special dates like your anniversaries if you start dating, because otherwise you may get in trouble if she or you bring the subject up.
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